Be a team with your lover.

I saw this quote the other day and I just have to share it with you all. Because it’s vital in all relationships. 

“We’re a team.
Whatever you lack, I got you.
We will balance each other out.
Minor setback? Guess we’ll make a major comeback.
Bad day? Well, I promise you a better night.
Do you need support? I’ll be your backbone.
I’ll keep you motivated and at the top, always.
As long as you appreciate me and remain consistent you don’t ever have to doubt my loyalty.
You got me. I got us.”

This is your reminder that when your loved ones are struggling and you feel helpless because you can not do anything to help; hold strong because there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Especially to the men in your life. We have made the illusion that they are superman and can not be broken. They can break, they can cry, they can panic.

They don’t want to be told to “be a man” or “harden up” They don’t want us to ignore them when they actually open up about how they are feeling. They want us to soften and nurture them and gently tell them how the challenge can be resolved.

It’s crazy how some of us, want our partners to open up more but when they do we get uncomfortable or shut them down.

Thank them, tell them you appreciate their honesty and value the fact they can confide in you.

Give them space to allow their emotions to be released.

I know, trust me I know when they are in a bad head space it can take it’s toll on you because you just want them to be happy and you can see what they need to do, but they are just stuck in the rut and they have to get themselves out.

Be their inspiration. Live how you would like them to live as much as you can. Some days will be more challenging than others. But the love you share with them conquers it all.

So if you know someone in your life going through a hard time right now;
Contact them, tell them you love them. Remind them that this will pass and you need a little storm to appreciate the rainbows. You have NO idea how much something so small, can mean to them.

 

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